Thursday, May 31, 2012

Be Ready to Receive


We more readily receive and recognize the Spirit of the Lord as we appropriately invite Him into our lives. We cannot compel, coerce, or command the Holy Ghost. Rather, we should invite Him into our lives with the same gentleness and tenderness by which He entreats us. 

- David A. Bednar, Receive the Holy Ghost, General Conference, Oct 2010

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Have I Done Any Good in the World Today- May 14, 2012


I have thought about what I wanted to share and at first I was thinking something along the lines of spending time with family and what is really important.  I couldn't find anything I liked or think of how I wanted to share it.  I said a prayer asking for a little help and ending up waking up in the night with the feeling that my message today would be on service.  Now some of you may know that I am a very visual person and like to learn and understand things if I able to imagine myself there or can see a picture or video etc - so the first thing I did was go to the Mormon Messages.  As I was scrolling through the messages the title to this one really jumped out at me and got me really thinking- it's from PresidentMonson titled "Have I Done Any Good in the World Today?" Something that really stuck out to me was when he says "Have you ever intended to be the one to help and yet how often has day to day living interfered and you left it for others to help-that your so caught up in the busyness of our lives" 
     
Last week I had a similar situation.  Teylor had been wanting to ride his bike to school for a while - but with his paper routes and practices right after the paper route for him andParkar we just haven't been able to walk to school.  So last Tuesday I told him we could finally walk ( I had to pick the hottest day too:)). I was walking pushing a big jogging stroller with Parkar and Kartyr in it and Teylor was riding his bike and it was at least 80 degrees.  We all were getting really hot, our water was getting low and Kartyr had been crying for at least 5minutes.  We came into a cul de sac with about 15papers left and asTeylor was just about to finish in there I noticed a member from our ward that had been severely injured early this year in which he crushed both  of his legs, chest and an arm walking to get his lawn mower out of his shed.  I'll be honest I sat at the end of the cul desac in the shade thinking to myself I really would like to help him but it is SOO hot, Kartyrneeds to eat, we were in a hurry to get done so we wouldn't be late for practice, I still had dinner to preparte etc but as I watched him make one loop around his yard very slowly and limping I couldn't help but walk down there and ask him to let me mow his yard.  Of course he turned me down and after about 3minutes of me insisting I mow his yard he finally gave in and let me do it. 

So when I watched this video I was thinking to myself considering last week how I was trying to talk myself out of giving service for petty "busyness of our lives" how many times does this happen to all of us? How many times do we see someone we could help real quick be we are so caught up in what we are doing or where we are going that we "intended to help but left it for others to help?"  I just want to end with the hymn that President Monson shared "Have I done any good in the world today-Have I helped anyone in need- Have I cheered up the sad and made someone feel glad- if not I failed indeed - Has any ones burdens been lighter today because I was willing to share - Have the sick and the weary been helped on their way - when they needed my help was I there. 

So I would ask each of you to try and remember to ask yourselves each day "Have I Done Any Good in the World Today?" I love you all so much and I'm so grateful for each of! (Sorry its SOO LATE) Raeann

Importance of Family- May 16, 2012


Today Cameron and I are both going to share the message! We wanted to share our feelings on family, children, and what's most important. I guess Cameron gets to go first  

This morning I had a flood of thoughts running through my head as I showered before my day(I couldn't sing cause everyone was still sleeping). My thoughts were of how my family is there with me in everything I do in life.  I observed a bit about those around me yesterday and concluded this. We all want to belong to something greater and to feel like we belong-I work with a guy who is a member in a Gold Wing club and another who is in a year round dart league and I am in season teams of basketball softball etc.  As I started my first game last night I was missing the club-group-unit that I wanted with me the most- my family.  It's a family event every time I play and we enjoy these activities together.  When they arrived I loved seeing my beautiful wife and my fun little Parkar and my little league geared up Teylor and getting to trade a smile with my little Kartyr through the fence.  My night could now begin completely.  As I think about them on the other side of that fence it makes me think of how it could be in the hereafter if I were separated from them-just as lonely and empty as it was as I anxiously waited them at my game but endlessly there.  That's something I couldn't bear- with them or any of you. The joys I felt as I saw them are the experiences I wish to have with them for eternity-as well as with each of you.

Now for Raeann's portion, I just wanted to share a little experience that happened last week. Our oldest nephew is a senior in college and has played baseball all through college. We were able watch him play a couple times his first two years as he was going to a college in Montana. The last two years he has played for a college in Illinois and mainly plays on the east coast so we have been unable to watch him play. So we found out he was going to be playing in a tournament in Iowa this weekend (Thursday, Friday, & Saturday)which is going to be his last college baseball games and he had asked if we were going to be able to come watch him play.  My whole family was planning on going so we really wanted to make it.  We had several things to consider as Parkar has his last day of preschool tomorrow which he really wanted to go to, both Teylor and Parkar have their last soccer games this Saturday, and Cameron had planned and is in charge of a pinewood derby race this Saturday too. As we talked about it I was just planing on going with my parents but they were leaving today and coming back Saturday afternoon so that wasn't going to really work -i needed to be able to leave Thursday afternoon and come back after the games Friday.  Cameron had decided that he couldn't make it because of the derby and it was to close to request time off work, he was getting good hours and didn't want to miss out on those - he said there was no way he was going to even consider asking.  So as we talked I decided maybe I just wouldn't go and Cameron kept saying "whats most important, whats most important the soccer games or watching him play and being there for him?" So as I thought about it I knew we had to go and so I turned to Cameron and asked him "whats most important - working 50 hours or watching him play" he thought for a second and decided he would ask for the days off.  We were able to keep all the things we have planed on Saturday and still able to make what was most  important - being there for him and watching him in his last college games.

We shared our examples to illustrate that family is a treasure but we recognize thebalance and life makes it difficult to put that priority first sometimes.  There WILL have to be some sacrifices made in order to achieve that priority.  Our family tries very much to do things TOGETHER- whether it be around the house, or supporting individual activities of ours or those we love, a joint effort in paper routes etc... We have felt and seen greaterlove and spirit in our home as we have done this - as well as prayed daily and nightly together, read scriptures together and including everyone in all aspects of our home and family together.  There is a noticeable union and joy in our home when these things are done and we encourage each oh you to to do ALL that you do in your homes TOGETHER.  We also invite you to share treasured experiences where you have felt a greater love in your families because of doing things together.  One last  thought- if you want tot be together forever- tjen start doing things together NOW.  

We Love YOU -Together Forever here we Come.  Love Cameron and Raeann

Quotes that Move Us- May 17, 2012


Good Morning!  I love quotes/thoughts (more thoughts) so today I thought my message would be some that I've read or heard that I liked.
 
One my wonderful husband always says "I never said it would be easy I only said it would be worth it"
 
"The choices we make determine our destiny"
"A Family that prays together stays together"
"Enjoy the small things in life for one day you'll look back and realize they were the big things"
 
Some thoughts:
"I know that God loves us.  He allows us to exercise our moral agency even when we misuse it.  He permits us to make our own decisions.  Christ cannot help us if we do not trust him; He cannot teach us if we do not serve Him.  He will not force us to do what's right, but He will show us the way only when we decide to serve Him.  Certainly, for us to serve in His kingdom, Christ requires that we experience a change of thought and attitude"
 
"Patience- the ability to put our desires on hold for a time-is a precious and rare virtue.  We want what we want, and we want it now.  Therefore, the very idea of patience may seem unpleasant and, at times, bitter.  Nevertheless, without patience, we cannot please God; we cannot become perfect.  Indeed, patience is a purifying process that refines understanding, deepens happiness, focuses action, and offers hope for peace"
 
"The gospel teaches us that relief from torment and guilt can be earned through repentance.  Save for those few-those very few-who defect to perdition after having know a fullness, there is no habit, no addiction, no rebellion, no transgression, no offense small or large which is exempt form the promise of complete forgiveness.  No matter what has happened in your life, the lord has prepared a way for you to come back if you will heed the promptings of the Holy Spirit"
 
"Time is never for sale; time is a commodity that cannot, try as you may, be bought at any store for any price.  Yet when time is wisely used, its value is immeasurable"
 
" Central to knowing the Father is understanding the revealed patterns of family.  The family is the most important unit in time and in eternity and is ordained of God.  Living in loving family relationships not only brings us great happiness, but it also helps us learn correct principles and prepares us for eternal life.  In addition, family relationships help us know, love, and understand the Father.  God's plan provides a way for family relationshipsto extend beyond the grave.  We can return to the presence of God, eternally united with our families"
 
"Wherever you now find yourself on the road of discipleship, you are on the right road, the road toward eternal life.  Togeher we can lift and strengthen one another in the great and important days ahead.  Whatever the difficultites confronting us, the weakneses confing us, or the impossibilities surrounding us, let us have faith in the Son of God, who declared, "All things are possible to him that believeeth."
 
Have a great day- Love you all- Raeann 

The Race- Friday, May 18, 2012


    The Race

      attributed to Dr. D.H. "Dee" Groberg

    Whenever I start to hang my head in front of failure’s face, 
        my downward fall is broken by the memory of a race. 
    A children’s race, young boys, young men; how I remember well, 
        excitement sure, but also fear, it wasn’t hard to tell. 
    They all lined up so full of hope, each thought to win that race 
        or tie for first, or if not that, at least take second place. 
    Their parents watched from off the side, each cheering for their son, 
        and each boy hoped to show his folks that he would be the one.


    The whistle blew and off they flew, like chariots of fire, 
        to win, to be the hero there, was each young boy’s desire. 
    One boy in particular, whose dad was in the crowd, 
        was running in the lead and thought “My dad will be so proud.” 
    But as he speeded down the field and crossed a shallow dip, 
        the little boy who thought he’d win, lost his step and slipped. 
    Trying hard to catch himself, his arms flew everyplace, 
        and midst the laughter of the crowd he fell flat on his face. 
    As he fell, his hope fell too; he couldn’t win it now. 
        Humiliated, he just wished to disappear somehow.


    But as he fell his dad stood up and showed his anxious face, 
        which to the boy so clearly said, “Get up and win that race!” 
    He quickly rose, no damage done, behind a bit that’s all, 
        and ran with all his mind and might to make up for his fall. 
    So anxious to restore himself, to catch up and to win, 
        his mind went faster than his legs. He slipped and fell again. 
    He wished that he had quit before with only one disgrace. 
        “I’m hopeless as a runner now, I shouldn’t try to race.”


    But through the laughing crowd he searched and found his father’s face 
        with a steady look that said again, “Get up and win that race!” 
    So he jumped up to try again, ten yards behind the last. 
        “If I’m to gain those yards,” he thought, “I’ve got to run real fast!” 
    Exceeding everything he had, he regained eight, then ten... 
        but trying hard to catch the lead, he slipped and fell again. 
    Defeat! He lay there silently. A tear dropped from his eye. 
        “There’s no sense running anymore! Three strikes I’m out! Why try? 
    I’ve lost, so what’s the use?” he thought. “I’ll live with my disgrace.” 
        But then he thought about his dad, who soon he’d have to face.


    “Get up,” an echo sounded low, “you haven’t lost at all, 
        for all you have to do to win is rise each time you fall. 
    Get up!” the echo urged him on, “Get up and take your place! 
        You were not meant for failure here! Get up and win that race!” 
    So, up he rose to run once more, refusing to forfeit, 
        and he resolved that win or lose, at least he wouldn’t quit. 
    So far behind the others now, the most he’d ever been, 
        still he gave it all he had and ran like he could win. 
    Three times he’d fallen stumbling, three times he rose again. 
        Too far behind to hope to win, he still ran to the end.


    They cheered another boy who crossed the line and won first place, 
        head high and proud and happy -- no falling, no disgrace. 
    But, when the fallen youngster crossed the line, in last place, 
        the crowd gave him a greater cheer for finishing the race. 
    And even though he came in last with head bowed low, unproud, 
        you would have thought he’d won the race, to listen to the crowd. 
    And to his dad he sadly said, “I didn’t do so well.” 
        “To me, you won,” his father said. “You rose each time you fell.”


    And now when things seem dark and bleak and difficult to face, 
        the memory of that little boy helps me in my own race. 
    For all of life is like that race, with ups and downs and all. 
        And all you have to do to win is rise each time you fall. 
    And when depression and despair shout loudly in my face, 
        another voice within me says, “Get up and win that race!”
One more little thought "I am not judged  by the number of times I fail, but by the number of times I succeed: and the number of times I succeed is in direct proportion to the number of times I fail but keep trying"
I love you all and thank you for the opportunity I had to share this weeks messages-I hope you enjoyed them! Love Raeann

Time Is Precious


From a talk given by Ian S. Arden of the Quorum of the Seventy- General Conference, April 2011


Time is never for sale; time is a commodity that cannot, try as you may, be bought at any store for any price. Yet when time is wisely used, its value is immeasurable. On any given day we are all allocated, without cost, the same number of minutes and hours to use, and we soon learn, as the familiar hymn so carefully teaches, “Time flies on wings of lightning; we cannot call it back” (“Improve the Shining Moments,” Hymns, no. 226). What time we have we must use wisely. President Brigham Young said, “We are all indebted to God for the ability to use time to advantage, and he will require of us a strict account of [its] disposition” (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Brigham Young [1997], 286).

With the demands made of us, we must learn to prioritize our choices to match our goals or risk being exposed to the winds of procrastination and being blown from one time-wasting activity to another. We are well taught about priorities by the Master Teacher when He declared in His Sermon on the Mount, “Wherefore, seek not the things of this world but seek ye first to build up the kingdom of God, and to establish his righteousness” (Matthew 6:33, footnote a; from Joseph Smith Translation, Matthew 6:38). (See also Dallin H. Oaks, “Focus and Priorities,” Liahona, July 2001, 99–102; Ensign, May 2001, 82–84.)
Alma spoke of priorities when he taught that “this life became a probationary state; a time to prepare to meet God” (Alma 12:24). How to best use the rich heritage of time to prepare to meet God may require some guidance, but surely we would place the Lord and our families at the top of the list. President Dieter F. Uchtdorf reminded us that “in family relationships love is really spelled t-i-m-e” (“Of Things That Matter Most,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2010, 22). I testify that when help is prayerfully and sincerely sought, our Heavenly Father will help us to give emphasis to that which deserves our time above something else.

The poor use of time is a close cousin of idleness. As we follow the command to “cease to be idle” (D&C 88:124), we must be sure that being busy also equates to being productive. For example, it is wonderful to have the means of instant communication quite literally at our fingertips, but let us be sure that we do not become compulsive fingertip communicators. I sense that some are trapped in a new time-consuming addiction—one that enslaves us to be constantly checking and sending social messages and thus giving the false impression of being busy and productive.

There is much that is good with our easy access to communication and information. I have found it helpful to access research articles, conference talks, and ancestral records, and to receive e-mails, Facebook reminders, tweets, and texts. As good as these things are, we cannot allow them to push to one side those things of greatest importance. How sad it would be if the phone and computer, with all their sophistication, drowned out the simplicity of sincere prayer to a loving Father in Heaven. Let us be as quick to kneel as we are to text.

Electronic games and cyber acquaintances are no lasting substitute for real friends who can give an encouraging hug, who can pray for us and seek after our best interest. How grateful I have been to see quorum, class, and Relief Society members rally to the support of one another. On such occasions I have better understood what the Apostle Paul meant when he said, “Ye are no more strangers and foreigners, but fellowcitizens with the saints” (Ephesians 2:19).

I know our greatest happiness comes as we tune in to the Lord (see Alma 37:37) and to those things which bring a lasting reward, rather than mindlessly tuning in to countless hours of status updates, Internet farming, and catapulting angry birds at concrete walls.

I urge each of us to take those things which rob us of precious time and determine to be their master, rather than allowing them through their addictive nature to be the master of us.


Time marches swiftly forward to the tick of the clock. Today would be a good day, while the clock of mortality ticks, to review what we are doing to prepare to meet God. 

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Reminder of the Remember


Then beware less thou forget the Lord, which brought thee forth out of the land of Egypt, from the house of bondage.
Deuteronomy 6:12
 
One of the most important words in the dictionary is remember (Kimball, Circles of Exaltation, 8). How often do we stray from the strait path because we forget who we are and Whose we are? How often do we fall into temptation because we forget that some present pleasures lead only to heartache hereafter? And how often do we forget the price that has been paid by so  many noble men and women to bring to us the knowledge and understanding that we possess, persons who gave their very lives to lay the foundation of this latter-day work? If we are sensitive, attentive to the quiet whisperings of the spirit of conscience within us, we will remember and be tutored through the medium of memory.
 
How true this is! I also find it ironic that remember is one of the most important words and our family page uses it twice :) This is so simple and yet so hard - I am one who tends to ignore the quiet whisperings within - more than I should. I hope this message today can help you all and inspire you as much as it did me. I Love you all so very much!!!!  Enjoy this most wonderful day.

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

The Wisdom of Solomon


God appeared unto Solomon, and said unto him, Ask what I shall give thee. And Solomon said unto God,...Give me now Wisdom and Knowledge.
2 Chronicles 1:7-10

When God offered Solomon any gift he desired, he could have asked for long life, power over his enemies, or vast riches. Instead the king asked for an understanding heart to judge Israel, a compassionate heart that opens the door to wisdom (1 Kings 3:5-15). If God offered you the same gift, what would you ask for? Fame, fortune, happiness, health?? The wisdom of Solomon's request teaches us much about life and living. Wisdom is the product of heartfelt concern for others. True joy comes from reaching out to others in Love and empathy. After all, what can we ever really know of another's fears, frustrations, and disappointments? How can we become sensitive to others if we haven't looked into their hearts and sought for deeper understanding? In our moments of sorrow, is anything needed more than the compassion that opens one heart to another? Indeed the legendary wisdom of Solomon comes from an understanding heart.


Have a most wonderful Tuesday Family!!! Dig deep today :)

Monday, May 21, 2012

Eat That Frog

Good Morning my Family !

My message today is on Procrastination which is one of the biggest struggles I have . I picked up a book called Eat that Frog ( 21 ways to stop procrastinating and get more done in less time) - the intro to this book is what I'd like to share today.

This is a wonderful time to be alive. There have never been more possibilities and opportunities for you to achieve more of your goals than exist today. As perhaps never before in human history, you are actually drowning in options. In fact, there are so many good things that you can do, that your ability to decide among them may be the critical determinant of what you accomplish in Life.

If you are like most people today, you are overwhelmed with too much to do and too little time. As you struggle to get caught up, new tasks and responsibilities just keep rolling in, like the waves of the ocean. Because of this, you will never be able to do everything you have to do. You will never be caught up. You will always be behind in some of your tasks and responsibilities, and probably in many of them.

For this reason, and perhaps more than ever before, your ability to select your most important task at each moment, and then to get started on that task and to get it done both quickly and well, will probably have more of an impact on your success than any other quality or skill you can develop.

An average person who develops the habit of setting clear priorities and getting important tasks completed quickly will run circles around a genius who talks a lot and makes wonderful plans but who gets very little done.

Mark Twain once said that if the first thing you do each morning is to eat a live frog, you can go through the day with the satisfaction of knowing that that is probably the worst thing that is going to happen to you all day long .

Pretty good advice if I do say so myself. I Love you my family and pray that we can set clear priorities in life. I often think I'm way to busy for anything - instead of clearing the path I find a new one. Well no more :) Wish everyone a Happy Monday - Make it a Great day!!

Love, Preston